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A Seat at The Table
Inclusion is something that we all seek to some degree or another. The most introverted of us, who find solace and restored energy in alone-time, will still have a very small circle of close-knit friends from whom we seek comfort when the trials of life are upon us; the most extroverted of us may seek larger, more open groups, organizations, or even employment positions. The United Nations defines “social exclusion” as “a state in which individuals are unable to participate fully in economic, social, political and cultural life, as well as the process leading to and sustaining such a state” (source below). According to William Schutz’s 1958 theory of Fundamental Interpersonal Relations Orientation (FIRO), we all need three elements to varying degrees: Inclusion, Control and Affection. With high or low amounts of being “expressed” or “wanted,” these attributes tend to align with our personality profiles as assessed through other means. But all of this is to say that we all seek all three elements to higher or lower degrees.
In Acts 11:1 - 18, we learn of the biases of society and how we must combat them to embrace those who are in greatest need of our support and love. In Verses 2 and 3, it states:
2 So when Peter went up to Jerusalem, the circumcised believers criticized him, 3 saying, “Why did you go to uncircumcised men and eat with them?”
From this, we understand that the Jewish circumcised men were considered to be pious members of society. Consequently, it would not have been considered appropriate for them to associate with the unclean, uncircumcised, and irreverent members of society. However, what greater purpose can we serve than to minister to those in need? To help the downtrodden. To share knowledge with doubters and disbelievers. It is most comforting for us to sit at the table of fellowship with kindred spirits to break bread, laugh, and celebrate festive occasions; however, this is in no way a challenge. The challenge comes when we must engage in difficult discussions and have our beliefs questioned. It is to these neighbors that we must testify and share of the benevolence of God.
Nevertheless, in this advent time of increased caution required to avoid unnecessary viral risks of even extended family, this is not a call to invite strangers to your table right now. It is a request that we be aware of the discomfort that such gatherings in the future may entail and a call for you to be strong when the day returns to represent Christian values with those who need strength. The Christian path to salvation may not be an easy journey, but the rewards for devout travelers are certain to be beyond measure.
Prayer: Lord God, you delivered to us the words to which we must adhere. You have also set forth an example, in your son, of how we are to live a virtuous life, embracing the outcasts of society and showing them the path of redemption. Please give us the courage to conquer our fears and discomfort in ministering to those in greatest need and grant us strength to overcome the scrutiny of societies that may question our dedication to your way. Amen.
Source: https://www.un.org/esa/socdev/rwss/2016/chapter1.pdf